People who are entangled in the affairs of men and women every day lack a career that they are willing to devote themselves to. They invest too much in emotions, so no matter how bright and beautiful they may appear on the outside, they always lack a natural and indifferent temperament. Therefore, they have a natural disadvantage in attractiveness to the opposite sex. Their attractiveness cannot form a kind of uplifting, stern, and stubborn vitality. Many times they are like shy grass, their minds are too broad, accommodating too much love and affection, too much excitement and sadness. And their mood, emotions, and subjective initiative all rely on the nourishment given by the other party, all rely on the attention projected by the other party, the attention of the other party is their driving force. If the other party leaves, their world will immediately show signs of withering or collapsing. Because they invest so much in emotions, their hearts are like shy grass everywhere under stress, and like floating duckweed, they have nowhere to focus. This leads to a lack of sufficient energy to operate in other fields, a lack of a goal, a career behind them to resist risks, and to counter the tests thrown out by objective laws and human nature.